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Is it important to have a shared value system with a potential mate?
There are values and ideals that each of us hold dear and therefore, it is ideal that your potential mate share those values you hold dear. They may be our Christian beliefs or our attitude toward the environment or the way we treat other people. These are values and ideals we strive to uphold in our daily lives. At PerfectMatch.com we identify Christian values and ideals that, when considered in the matching process, help create deep, intimate and long-term relationships. Often, when people say they have found their soul mate, what they are really saying is that they have found someone with whom they are totally comfortable. That comfort level often means that their most important values and ideals are respected by their partner.
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This online stuff is something very new to me, to find my soul mate. I've high moral values and am Christian. I travel a lot. I finally shared my website with a member, as he mentioned he'd like to know me more. He wants us to communicate with our private e-mails and instant messaging. In order to get to know me more, he said he might want to join my tours with his mom. I mentioned it might be too early to do so.
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What Is Compatibility?
A lot of Internet sites promote themselves by inundating the consumer with an overwhelming number of intake questions all designed to finding you their version of a "perfect match". Many of these sites will match you up in ways which are comfortable and familiar. For example, if members only want to be matched with people of a certain age, non-smokers, political philosophy, race, religion or even a similar hobby, it can easily be done.
This is simply one of many steps that begin the process of identifying and determining compatibility. Compatibility itself is more subtle than whether you and your partner have an ability to do a crossword puzzle or share an interest in downhill skiing.
Compatibility is about both differences and similarities, that when combined, they generate enough interest and comfort to create more than just a passing attraction to each other. Granted, being compatible means you have shared goals and life style habits, however, it also means you both continue to admire, respect and communicate well with one another.
Perhaps even more subtly, but essential, compatibility means you feel you are positive additions to each other's lives and are not just redundant reflections of each other.
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Aaron & Shirl
We were both quite surprised with the direction and the speed our relationship took. I must say this is the first time I've remotely felt what a soul mate is supposed to be like. My mind feels young and this feels intentional.
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