About Gardners Singles

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 18.8% of Gardners Singles say their sense of humor is: Wisecrack 
 52.1% of Gardners Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Gardners Date Ideas from Gardners Singles

Post Date: Jul 30, 2011

Denise from Hanover says: Bay City Restaurant. Nice deck, live music, relaxing.

Post Date: Jul 3, 2011

Alicia from Harrisburg says: ...the River, or Amish Country..lol..off beat I know

Post Date: Jun 11, 2011

Jessica from Harrisburg says: Riverfront Park. Taking a walk or jog, catching a baseball game or getting a bite to eat, walking around town is the best part of living in the city!

Post Date: Apr 12, 2011

steve from Carlisle says: city island

Post Date: Apr 5, 2011

Todd from Mechanicsburg says: Which city? Los Angeles: Barnie's Beanery. New Orleans: Vaughn's. Athens, GA: The 40 Watt Club. Columbus, Ohio: Tailgating at an Ohio State football game. Harrisburg, Pa: Who gives a sh*t...you're in PA. The whole city is boring.

Post Date: Feb 9, 2011

Mike from Middletown says: Either Lancaster or York - been around Harrisburg, a lot. Like trying newer places, new adventures.

Post Date: Jan 31, 2011

Troy from Paxtang says: Panera Bread

Post Date: Jan 24, 2011

Butch from Harrisburg says: Downtown Harrisburg.

Post Date: Jan 21, 2011

Marc from Harrisburg says: Love going to dinner at a few different places (and always willing to try someplace new)...Bricco, Stocks, Sammy's, Sasha's. Big fan of a post-dinner drink, too...scotch and jazz at the Hilton, martini's at Cafe Fresco or Hotel Hershey, maybe even flaming Dr. Pepper's at the Pep Grill.

Post Date: Jan 19, 2011

Looking4ItAll from York says: Too many place, great eclectic restaurants and hotels to mention across the US and abroad. Always like central Manhattan/Soho/Central Park because of the amount of options in one area to choose from Little Italy to Chinatown.

Post Date: Feb 19, 2011

Yaffa from Linglestown says: I live in a suburb of Harrisburg, Pennsylvania, so I'd have to say Aangan Indian Restaurant or Olive Garden. For a special occasion? Events, Etc.

Facts about Gardners Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
High school (52.1%)
Some college (22.9%)
Trade school (12.5%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (20.8%)
Transportation (10.4%)
Medical/Health services (6.3%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Wisecrack (18.8%)
Sarcasm (12.5%)
Slapstick (8.3%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (66.7%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (25.0%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (43.8%)
Socially (22.9%)
Moderately (18.8%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (60.4%)
Do not drink (25.0%)
Moderately (8.3%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Worship in private (33.3%)
Religion is not important to me (31.3%)
Attend religious services occasionally (16.7%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (52.1%)
Long massage (8.3%)
Weekend getaway (8.3%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Cat (58.3%)
Dog (29.2%)
Exotic (2.1%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.