About Bethlehem Singles

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 19.0% of Bethlehem Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 29.8% of Bethlehem Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Bethlehem Date Ideas from Bethlehem Singles

Post Date: Aug 23, 2011

lucy from Allentown says: The Allentown Fair...the food the music the festival smells and the waffle ice cream and funnel cake!!

Post Date: May 24, 2011

Hugh from Nazareth says: Big Wheels roller skating rink. Have not been there in a long time... would like to go regularly again just for the exercise. Not really a sit in the movies type of guy...can do that at home in privacy!

Post Date: May 21, 2011

Seth from Allentown says: Well, I'd probably do Rascals in Allentown but if you're from the Philly area, I used to live there and love to do Dave and Busters, the art museum, Franklin Institute, South Street, the Baltimore Aquarium, the Philly zoo - It really depends on location :-P Even an amusement park like Dorney Park or Six Flags would be nice :)

Post Date: Apr 23, 2011

Judi from Stowe says: Actually I do not have a favorite but the salmon at TGIF is fantastic! Nice place to meet.

Post Date: Feb 2, 2011

Laura from East Stroudsburg says: The outdoors -- the Pocono's is a beautiful place to be outside

Post Date: Jan 30, 2011

Kevin from Palmer Township says: Panera Bread or some other informal setting. If you have made it this far and interested, please contact me at titan0319 at ymail on line. Thank you!

Post Date: Jan 29, 2011

Carol from Lansdale says: In the summer: any eatery with outside seating. Any time: Peace Valley Park in Bucks County for a 6 mile walk, Starbucks for coffe and conversation (but only if the leather sofa is available), my place or yours for dinner or a movie (only after we know and trust each other to share addresses).

Post Date: Sep 4, 2011

Cruz8519gmale from Reading says: Red covered bridge.

Post Date: Jun 11, 2011

donna from Birdsboro says: going to dinner and then dancing the night away!

Post Date: Mar 13, 2011

barbara from Richboro says: Outdoor concerts are fun or a great new restaurant

Post Date: Mar 3, 2011

Virginia from Royersford says: Valley Forge Park

Post Date: Feb 17, 2011

Donna from Shillington says: My favorite restaurant or place to relax is a restaurant called "Viva". Great atmosphere.

Post Date: Feb 2, 2011

Karen from Wyomissing says: My city is famous for Berks Jazz Fest in Spring, however, I prefer NYC anytime.

Post Date: Jan 24, 2011

Patricia from Drums says: cuzin joes

Facts about Bethlehem Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (24.6%)
Bachelors degree (20.9%)
High school (19.9%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Medical/Health services (9.6%)
Student (7.4%)
Technical/Science/Engineering (7.0%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (19.0%)
Wisecrack (9.4%)
Dry (8.9%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (61.1%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (24.2%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (2.1%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (63.3%)
Socially (11.4%)
Moderately (9.4%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (66.0%)
Do not drink (15.4%)
Moderately (8.8%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (31.8%)
Religion is not important to me (21.2%)
Worship in private (20.2%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (29.8%)
Candlelit dinner at home (13.9%)
Long massage (13.7%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (38.2%)
Cat (35.0%)
Bird (4.5%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.