About Vernon Singles

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 18.6% of Vernon Singles say their sense of humor is: Wisecrack 
 32.1% of Vernon Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Vernon Date Ideas from Vernon Singles

Post Date: Aug 19, 2011

Eileen from Hewitt says: First date meet for coffee in a diner. After that dinner at a lakeside restaurant. Boating on the lake or hiking the state park.

Post Date: Jul 10, 2011

Karen from Augusta says: I think my favorite place for a date is somewhere when I can have fun like a bar/restaurant. In my area Lake Mohawk Sparta and Andover have some nice fun places like that.

Post Date: Jun 25, 2011

Veronica from Parsippany says: Love going to the movies or perhaps out for an ice cream cone.

Post Date: Jun 19, 2011

Rachael from Lake Hopatcong says: Morristown, so much to do and it's a hope, skip and a jump away from NYC.

Post Date: Jun 5, 2011

pogue from Madison says: Walk in the park

Post Date: Jun 3, 2011

Jim from Saddle Brook says: Anywhere they have sushi :-()

Post Date: May 6, 2011

David from Blairstown says: Paris in France... but anywhere will do as well..

Post Date: May 6, 2011

Sophie from Montclair says: in montclair i love to go in eclectic it's tee/café very original !!!

Post Date: Apr 16, 2011

Avery from Roseland says: Any quality pizza parlor, but I prefer that she choose the location.

Post Date: Apr 6, 2011

Sebastian from Parsippany says: There's a nice local Italian restaurant and a great sushi place.

Post Date: Apr 4, 2011

Brian from Wanaque says: It would have to be Napa Valley Grill in Paramus. I know it is in the Garden State Plaza, but you would be surprised...the food is amazing! Second would be Chart House in Weehawken...amazing view of the city!

Post Date: Apr 2, 2011

Bill from Hopatcong says: Nice quiet restaurant.

Post Date: Mar 29, 2011

Valerie from Pompton Lakes says: My favorite location is Carmines on 44th and Broadway in the theatre district...times square has a great buzz of energy and super dining

Post Date: Mar 27, 2011

Roula from Hackettstown says: I don't have one

Post Date: Mar 19, 2011

Karen from Elmwood Park says: I think I would take her to Morton's Steak House, but would rather take her to a New York restaurant.

Facts about Vernon Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (31.4%)
High school (19.2%)
Bachelors degree (16.0%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Administrative (10.3%)
Self employed (9.0%)
Medical/Health services (8.3%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Wisecrack (18.6%)
Sarcasm (17.9%)
Dry (10.9%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (56.4%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (31.4%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (3.2%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (62.2%)
Socially (12.8%)
Moderately (9.6%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (64.7%)
Do not drink (14.1%)
Moderately (11.5%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Religion is not important to me (32.7%)
Attend religious services occasionally (31.4%)
Worship in private (19.2%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (32.1%)
Candlelit dinner at home (16.7%)
Long massage (12.8%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Cat (42.3%)
Dog (36.5%)
Bird (6.4%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.