10 Smart First Date Ideas
There's no question first dates can be nerve-wracking. What to wear? What to say? Where to go? All this uncertainty is compounded when it's not just a first date, but perhaps your first date in a long time.
Spice it Up.
Cooking can be fun and sexy. There're cooking classes for all levels available throughout the country. Checkout the food section of your local paper to see what area restaurants and community colleges are offering up courses.
Cut a Rug Ballroom, Salsa, Swing, and Samba.
The first date choices are endless when it comes to dancing. Even if you haven't stepped on a dance floor in years, there're plenty of teachers who can help you get back in the swing of things. Besides being fun, dancing cheek-to-cheek may also help you further determine the chemistry factor.
Have a Picnic.
One of the most romantic and soothing outings is a picnic by the lake or on the beach. This is invitingly enhanced when both people like the outdoors. If you're shopping for food and drink together, this will add to the adventure. If not, be sure you decide on what each of you will bring to eat.
The Beauty of Art.
Share a love of art by going on a gallery walk or museum tour. You can also sign up for an art history lecture at your local university.
Set Sail on the High Seas.
You can also keep your first date simple by renting a canoe or row boat and heading to a nearby lake or canal. If one of you is skilled, you can even rent a powerboat or sailing vessel. And, don't forget the excitement of a splurge on a moonlight cruise.
The Literary Word.
What better way to bond than over your favorite books? Attending a book reading at your local bookstore or university is a great way to find common ground and keep the conversation flowing.
Perhaps your new friend enjoys hitting the courts or shares your passion for golf. All types of active outings make great first dates and help you stay in shape at the same time. Engaging in a physical activity can raise the level of intimacy, as you'll be more exposed both physically and emotionally. You'll discover how the other person deals with winning and losing.
Whether you're moved by opera, country, rock, or classical, attending an indoor or outdoor concert is sure to set the tone for a great first date!
If gardening is a shared passion, a trip to a plant nursery or arboretum could be a fun first date idea.
Wine and Dine.
What's the difference between Shiraz and Syrah? A fun and easy way to find out is attending a wine tasting or by visiting a winery. This is ideal for a first encounter because it's both casual and informative, and yet, you're still able to talk to each other.
What to wear on that first date?
Now that you've finally decided to go on that first date, the next decisions should be easy: Where to meet? What to say? What to wear? Yes, what to wear. According to a recent poll on PerfectMatch.com, 60% of guys believe Jeans, shirt and sport jacket expressed the best first date impressions, while that 46% of women preferred their first date suitors in Jeans, shirt and sport jacket and 43% in just a t-shirt and jeans.
To help you look and feel your best, we've enlisted the advice of Tom Julian, fashion trend analyst, guru and author of Nordstrom Guide to Men's Style.
Fashioning a First Date Look for Your Body Type
Most women think men are totally unselfconscious about their physiques, but most men would (secretly) disagree. Know how to dress your body in order to play up its strengths and play down its weaknesses.
First things first, identify your body type but do not let it limit your fashion choices. Being self-aware about your physique can help you hone in on the right clothing choices for you.
Find out what to wear for your body type on your first date.
Dress to Impress - Be Well-Suited for Your First Date
The right suit can turn an interview into a job, a lunch meeting into a deal, maybe even a date into a long-term relationship...
...But the wrong suit can ruin everything. It's been said that the suit is a symbol of modern manhood; whether a man is 18 or 81, he needs a great suit in his closet. A suit imparts a sense of authority, credibility and class to the wearer. Tom Julian truly believes that it's impossible to go wrong wearing the right suit.
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Finding the Perfect White Shirt
As the saying goes, if you really care about someone, you are willing to give them the shirt off your back. The shirt is a critical part of the tailored ensemble that sits closest to the body, so it has to be comfortable and impeccably fitted. Even though it may seem irrelevant, a great shirt is what makes a great suit look, well, great. The shirt is the heart and soul of the suit - the jelly in the doughnut, the olive in the martini.
Find the perfect white shirt for your perfect first date
Buckle Up to Trousers
Pants are a wardrobe staple - and we are not talking about your standard pair of jeans - but a great pair (or two) of trousers. Trousers feature belt loops, a fly, a waistband, pleats, or cuffs and are an essential part of creating a look that's comfortable for you.
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Selecting the Correct Shoes
Put your best foot forward on your first date by stepping into footwear that matches your personal style - from everyday casual to fine dining dating. Ever wonder what shoes to wear with certain fabrics? We have some answers for you.
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Red Bank Date Ideas from Red Bank Singles
Post Date: Jan 23, 2011Mary from Red Bank says: A nice romantic restaurant near the boardwalk.
Post Date: Aug 22, 2011misserasmus from Springfield says: Basilica Restaurant
Post Date: Aug 21, 2011Alexandra from Jersey City says: probably LITM in downtown jersey city.... it's an eclectic kind of place with lots of beers to pick from!
Post Date: Aug 21, 2011Fran from South Plainfield says: A Portiguise restaurant with outside dining...wonderful food & tasty sangria!
Post Date: Jul 19, 2011mark from Newark says: Hell's Kitchen Lounge
Post Date: Jul 10, 2011Lenny from Toms River says: Anywhere near the ocean...the boardwalk.
Post Date: Jul 7, 2011Vinny from Jackson says: Not many nice places to bring a date in Jackson, but I'm not far from the Jersey shore. That's where I prefer to go.
Post Date: Jul 5, 2011Amanda from South Plainfield says: I love Red Bank or anywhere in Princeton.
Post Date: Jul 5, 2011joan from Tinton Falls says: LOVE TO HAVE LUNCH AT A FAVORITE LOCATION, OUTSIDE ON THE RIVER.
Post Date: Jun 7, 2011Corey from Marlboro says: Anywhere nice quiet and romantic where we can spend as much time together,talk and get to know each other
Post Date: May 31, 2011Ann from Edison says: For coffee, Starbucks
For lunch, The Kona Grill
For a drink, The Cheesecake Factory
For dinner, Christopher's Steak House.
Post Date: May 15, 2011Micheal from Hoboken says: It was always an excellent classy restaurant. However I had dinner the other night at a great place with real character, I think that would be it, a BBQ pit. I believe in doing things 100& or not bother. But I am starting to 100% but still have more to look forward to.
Post Date: May 9, 2011joe from Morganville says: BROOKLYN
Post Date: May 4, 2011pureheart from Wall Township says: Jersey Mike's Subs
Post Date: May 1, 2011Liz from Jersey City says: Dinner and drinks at one of the fabulous spots in my area followed by a long walk and great conversation at the waterfront. Learning what interests we have in common for future dates. I love NYC especially at night. A show, one of the great museums. On weekends, a ride to nowhere, hopefully getting lost and finding some our new favorite special spots.