About Saint Paul Singles

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 15.8% of Saint Paul Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 26.3% of Saint Paul Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Saint Paul Outdoor Date Ideas Suggested by Saint Paul Singles

Post Date: Jun 15, 2011

David from Saint Paul says: Beach

Post Date: May 5, 2011

john from Saint Paul says: i have two place,s i like axcel on the river and the firehouse in stillwater

Post Date: Jan 22, 2011

Daniel from Saint Paul says: Indian mounds park.

Post Date: Sep 4, 2011

Lucas from Minneapolis says: The Minnesota Renaissance Festival, otherwise I like taking walks anywhere, especially in the fall when I can wear a cozy sweater.

Post Date: Aug 23, 2011

Anita from Eden Prairie says: I do love nice restaurants where the volume is low and a couple can have an intimate dinner and conversation. Several locations fit that bill. One in my area is Wildfire, in Eden Prairie. There are several others in downtown Minneapolis. I also love water..looking at water during dinner or on a walk is very calming. We have several lakes in MN that are beautiful. I am also very open to new places and ideas. It is fun and refreshing to try out new places. I love being surprised!

Post Date: Jul 17, 2011

Marlys from Maple Grove says: Red Wing is very nice, my sister has a nice boat with the boat prople, good place to visit. I like fishing, water, catching fish.

Post Date: Jun 1, 2011

Troy from Brooklyn Center says: A walk around any of the lakes is nice. We have a lot of good sushi joints in town. I haven't tried it yet, but I've heard really good things about chatterbox.

Post Date: Apr 18, 2011

Alan from Little Canada says: A lake with a dock where we can take off our shoes and roll up our pant legs and splash our feet in the water while we watch the moon and stars. In the Land of 10,000 lakes there are lots of spots that fit my criteria for a perfect date location.

Post Date: Mar 22, 2011


Post Date: Mar 5, 2011

Marcie from Minneapolis says: Boat on the St. Croix.

Post Date: Feb 11, 2011

Nancy from Roseville says: Somewhere by the water in a romamtic setting.

Post Date: Feb 9, 2011

JamesBondDouble from Golden Valley says: Lakes

Post Date: Feb 8, 2011

Kami from Cottage Grove says: Just being outside in the woods..Picnic maybe?

Post Date: Jan 31, 2011

Paulette from Chanhassen says: Coffee and/or Wine Bar for first date. After that it depends on what sparks our interest.

Post Date: Jan 23, 2011

Denton from Brooklyn Park says: I would say going to Minnehaha falls in the summer for a good stroll or picnic and then afterwards go out for a nice dinner followed by a good movie at home or at the theater.

Facts about Saint Paul Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (23.5%)
Bachelors degree (23.0%)
High school (14.1%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Student (11.0%)
Medical/Health services (9.1%)
Self employed (7.3%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (15.8%)
Dry (10.3%)
Wisecrack (8.4%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (52.8%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (27.0%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (2.3%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (63.0%)
Socially (11.7%)
Moderately (7.1%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (59.3%)
Do not drink (17.1%)
Moderately (9.4%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (30.4%)
Religion is not important to me (20.4%)
Attend religious services regularly (15.8%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (26.3%)
Long massage (12.5%)
Candlelit dinner at home (10.7%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Cat (34.4%)
Dog (33.1%)
Bird (4.6%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.