Allendale Date Ideas from Allendale Singles
Post Date: Jan 29, 2011kay from Allendale says: anywhere can spend quality time with someone special and have fun and talk
Post Date: Aug 15, 2011James from Grand Rapids says: Dinner on the deck at Rose's
Post Date: Apr 23, 2011Susan from Kentwood says: A little restaurant to have coffee called Sandies, or
I like to go to a hole in the wall restaurant, someplace I have never been to or that is really small.
Post Date: Mar 29, 2011Erika from Grand Rapids says: I like Craig's Cruisers and I could eat at Pizza Hut every day!!
Post Date: Mar 29, 2011Janet from Grand Rapids says: Schuler's Books or Riverside Park. Oh wait a minute, Picnic Pops!
Post Date: Jan 28, 2011TLynn from Grand Rapids says: Favorite date places in the city are my 2 favorite places in general…Madcap coffee, and Reserve wine bar. These spaces are great for relaxed time with a friend.
Post Date: Jan 22, 2011Rom from Grand Rapids says: I like the Bonefish Grille for food, East Hills for a fun workout date :) and Van Andel Arena for concerts and hockey!
Post Date: Jan 15, 2011Diane from Hudsonville says: Dinner in an intimate setting where the lights are low and there is calm, peaceful atmosphere. Not sure if I know where that might be yet other than my home. (-:
Post Date: Jan 8, 2011Linda from Belmont says: The White Pine trail with a honey-crisp apple and a good conversationalist. I love talking about the past and learning new things from people. Sharing your childhood adventures with me if like whip cream on pudding for me. I love it. Sharing one's past is a gift of trust between friends. It is never old or boring. Conversation is sharing. To be silent and aloof is stingy and selfish. That is my motto, and I'm sticking to it!
Facts about Allendale Singles
* Source - PerfectMatch Members
When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (49.7%)
High school (16.0%)
Bachelors degree (12.6%)
When asked about their Profession, they answered
Medical/Health services (7.4%)
When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (70.3%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (17.1%)
When asked if they Smoked, they answered
When asked about Drinking, they answered
Do not drink (16.6%)
When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (28.6%)
Attend religious services regularly (23.4%)
Religion is not important to me (19.4%)
When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Long massage (18.3%)
Candlelit dinner at home (9.7%)
When asked about their Pets, they answered
A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?
Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.
The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:
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Top 10 Dating Tips
1. Date Night Plan
Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.
2. Appropriateness Date Location
Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.
If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.
Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.
5. Listen to Your Date
Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.
6. Stay Light
Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.
Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.
As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.
Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.
10. Show Appreciation
Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.