About Alleman Singles

* Source - PerfectMatch Members
 6.5% of Alleman Singles say their sense of humor is: Dark comedy 
 9.7% of Alleman Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Alleman Date Ideas from Alleman Singles

Post Date: Jul 6, 2011

mike from West Des Moines says: Cubbies game at Sec Taylor Stadium or either Farmer's Markets. The bar and restaurant are awkward. It's best to have activities and diversions.

Post Date: Jun 26, 2011

felicity from Altoona says: RONDA

Post Date: Jun 7, 2011

Shirley from Des Moines says: I love to try different places to go eat.

Post Date: Mar 30, 2011

Linnea from Johnston says: Summer or Fall-the DM Zoo, the Saylerville lake areas, Big Creek for a walk or picnic. A drive in the country. Winter-the DM Botanical Center, a movie, home playing Dominoes or cards.

Post Date: Mar 29, 2011

Bev from Ankeny says: An old hotel that has a neat restaurant in it.

Post Date: Feb 16, 2011

Cynthia from Des Moines says: Okiboji

Post Date: Feb 12, 2011

Brad from Norwalk says: My favorite date location is someplace that I have not been to before or not often. I like to experience new things with my date. I would like to try a new restaurant or museum. On the grand scale of excitement and adventure, it may not be that great. However, it is still interesting (and not as expensive as skydiving ;p).

Post Date: Jan 15, 2011

Jenny from Ankeny says: I think for me it would be going out to or around Saylorville lake and just walking around ..... or to have a picnic there..... of course this would be in summer when it's warmer than -10 outside :)

Post Date: Jan 8, 2011

Sarah from Des Moines says: I like the streets close (west) to downtown areas -- they have accents: the trees, houses, lights, and shops, all that reminds me the hometown where I grew up and gives me a feeling of calm and sophiscated at the time.

Facts about Alleman Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Graduate degree (16.1%)
Bachelors degree (9.7%)
High school (6.5%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Student (19.4%)
Hospitality (6.5%)
Finance services/Real estate (6.5%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Dark comedy (6.5%)
Wisecrack (3.2%)
Physical comedy (3.2%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (12.9%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (12.9%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (3.2%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (35.5%)
Socially (6.5%)
Moderately (3.2%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Do not drink (22.6%)
Socially (12.9%)
Moderately (6.5%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (12.9%)
Attend religious services regularly (9.7%)
Religion is not important to me (3.2%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (9.7%)
Long massage (3.2%)
Intimate gift (3.2%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (9.7%)
Cat (6.5%)
Bird (6.5%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.