10 Smart First Date Ideas
There's no question first dates can be nerve-wracking. What to wear? What to say? Where to go? All this uncertainty is compounded when it's not just a first date, but perhaps your first date in a long time.
Spice it Up.
Cooking can be fun and sexy. There're cooking classes for all levels available throughout the country. Checkout the food section of your local paper to see what area restaurants and community colleges are offering up courses.
Cut a Rug Ballroom, Salsa, Swing, and Samba.
The first date choices are endless when it comes to dancing. Even if you haven't stepped on a dance floor in years, there're plenty of teachers who can help you get back in the swing of things. Besides being fun, dancing cheek-to-cheek may also help you further determine the chemistry factor.
Have a Picnic.
One of the most romantic and soothing outings is a picnic by the lake or on the beach. This is invitingly enhanced when both people like the outdoors. If you're shopping for food and drink together, this will add to the adventure. If not, be sure you decide on what each of you will bring to eat.
The Beauty of Art.
Share a love of art by going on a gallery walk or museum tour. You can also sign up for an art history lecture at your local university.
Set Sail on the High Seas.
You can also keep your first date simple by renting a canoe or row boat and heading to a nearby lake or canal. If one of you is skilled, you can even rent a powerboat or sailing vessel. And, don't forget the excitement of a splurge on a moonlight cruise.
The Literary Word.
What better way to bond than over your favorite books? Attending a book reading at your local bookstore or university is a great way to find common ground and keep the conversation flowing.
Perhaps your new friend enjoys hitting the courts or shares your passion for golf. All types of active outings make great first dates and help you stay in shape at the same time. Engaging in a physical activity can raise the level of intimacy, as you'll be more exposed both physically and emotionally. You'll discover how the other person deals with winning and losing.
Whether you're moved by opera, country, rock, or classical, attending an indoor or outdoor concert is sure to set the tone for a great first date!
If gardening is a shared passion, a trip to a plant nursery or arboretum could be a fun first date idea.
Wine and Dine.
What's the difference between Shiraz and Syrah? A fun and easy way to find out is attending a wine tasting or by visiting a winery. This is ideal for a first encounter because it's both casual and informative, and yet, you're still able to talk to each other.
What to wear on that first date?
Now that you've finally decided to go on that first date, the next decisions should be easy: Where to meet? What to say? What to wear? Yes, what to wear. According to a recent poll on PerfectMatch.com, 60% of guys believe Jeans, shirt and sport jacket expressed the best first date impressions, while that 46% of women preferred their first date suitors in Jeans, shirt and sport jacket and 43% in just a t-shirt and jeans.
To help you look and feel your best, we've enlisted the advice of Tom Julian, fashion trend analyst, guru and author of Nordstrom Guide to Men's Style.
Fashioning a First Date Look for Your Body Type
Most women think men are totally unselfconscious about their physiques, but most men would (secretly) disagree. Know how to dress your body in order to play up its strengths and play down its weaknesses.
First things first, identify your body type but do not let it limit your fashion choices. Being self-aware about your physique can help you hone in on the right clothing choices for you.
Find out what to wear for your body type on your first date.
Dress to Impress - Be Well-Suited for Your First Date
The right suit can turn an interview into a job, a lunch meeting into a deal, maybe even a date into a long-term relationship...
...But the wrong suit can ruin everything. It's been said that the suit is a symbol of modern manhood; whether a man is 18 or 81, he needs a great suit in his closet. A suit imparts a sense of authority, credibility and class to the wearer. Tom Julian truly believes that it's impossible to go wrong wearing the right suit.
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Finding the Perfect White Shirt
As the saying goes, if you really care about someone, you are willing to give them the shirt off your back. The shirt is a critical part of the tailored ensemble that sits closest to the body, so it has to be comfortable and impeccably fitted. Even though it may seem irrelevant, a great shirt is what makes a great suit look, well, great. The shirt is the heart and soul of the suit - the jelly in the doughnut, the olive in the martini.
Find the perfect white shirt for your perfect first date
Buckle Up to Trousers
Pants are a wardrobe staple - and we are not talking about your standard pair of jeans - but a great pair (or two) of trousers. Trousers feature belt loops, a fly, a waistband, pleats, or cuffs and are an essential part of creating a look that's comfortable for you.
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Selecting the Correct Shoes
Put your best foot forward on your first date by stepping into footwear that matches your personal style - from everyday casual to fine dining dating. Ever wonder what shoes to wear with certain fabrics? We have some answers for you.
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Indianapolis Date Ideas from Indianapolis Singles
Post Date: Aug 10, 2011Gary from Indianapolis says: Rick's boat yard cafe
Post Date: Jul 9, 2011Rachel from Indianapolis says: Downtown
Post Date: Jun 26, 2011Linda from Indianapolis says: Science 1: a quiet candlelit restaurant, at a cozy corner booth...and sushi is NOT on the menu.
Scene 2: a walk along the canal at the heart of downtown Indy...especially after they have cleaned up after the ducks.
Scene 3: Why don't we just figure this out together?
Post Date: May 31, 2011Karen from Indianapolis says: I love a romantic walk on the Canal.
Post Date: May 28, 2011Debbie from Indianapolis says: hmmm, it would depend on the person and mood....either a nice restaurant like Palamino's, a stroll on the grounds of the IMA or a walk in a park on a cool evening like Eagle Creek.
Post Date: May 22, 2011Ann from Indianapolis says: The Canal.
Post Date: May 8, 2011Elaine from Indianapolis says: Capitol Grill
Post Date: Apr 10, 2011Tom from Indianapolis says: I really like Oceanaire and I like to go dancing.
Post Date: Mar 31, 2011Brian from Indianapolis says: Downtown. I think a great date is taking her down to walk around the canal, check out some of the museums, maybe the zoo, maybe see an Indians game. Then have dinner at a nice restaurant and see a movie.
Post Date: Jan 29, 2011Dave from Indianapolis says: Downtown.
Post Date: Jan 19, 2011teri from Indianapolis says: King Wok - Maybe not a fabulous date place, but the best Chinese food in town! Beyond that, I'm pretty flexible when it comes to date spots. I can be happy just about anywhere.
Post Date: Jan 7, 2011Candi from Indianapolis says: There are many favarite date locations in our city. Each is unique, and my favorite in its own way for a particular given purpose.
Post Date: Aug 1, 2011Vic from Avon says: Moonlight/ candlelight Dinner on the deck at Rick's boatyard cafe..
Post Date: Jul 24, 2011Steven from Speedway says: Downtown Indianapolis.
Post Date: Jun 12, 2011Sheri from Greenwood says: Rick's Boatyard Cafe, especially in the summertime.