About O'fallon Singles

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 18.6% of O'fallon Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 32.0% of O'fallon Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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O'fallon Date Ideas from O'fallon Singles

Post Date: Sep 4, 2011

janelle from Trenton says: Just hang out somewhere where we can talk and listen and get to know each other. Possible picnic at a local park and get to know each other.

Post Date: May 20, 2011

john from Collinsville says: the park

Post Date: May 19, 2011

Debbie from Alton says: Bossanova

Post Date: May 13, 2011

Reginald from Alton says: CANDLE DINNER IN MY HOUSE.

Post Date: Apr 5, 2011

Charity from Collinsville says: I don't really know all that the St. Louis area has to offer. I've been to the zoo twice now and haven't seen all of it yet. The City Museum sounds like a lot of fun. I'm sure there's a lot more out there. :)

Post Date: Mar 18, 2011

Dixie from Belleville says: Wow...I have several..I like the Soulard area in St. Louis, Chancy's butcher shop in Ballwin, Mo, The Chocolate Bar, The Moolah Theatre

Post Date: Jan 30, 2011

Randi from Waterloo says: Kanarsyk Park. Its a huge park with lots of woods and a little water fall. Not too many people. Theres a lake and its just a really cool place.

Post Date: Jan 21, 2011

cathy from Edwardsville says: Neruda, or Andrea's Restaurant

Post Date: Jan 13, 2011

Edward from Collinsville says: There is not much in Collinsville. A date would have to be taked to St. Louis. There for dinner would be Landrays at Union Station.

Facts about O'fallon Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (33.1%)
Bachelors degree (24.3%)
Graduate degree (10.6%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Medical/Health services (10.9%)
Technical/Science/Engineering (8.8%)
Student (8.3%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (18.6%)
Dry (12.1%)
Wisecrack (12.1%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (64.9%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (24.5%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (1.6%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (68.2%)
Socially (11.6%)
Moderately (6.7%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (71.1%)
Do not drink (13.2%)
Moderately (6.5%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (38.5%)
Attend religious services regularly (19.1%)
Religion is not important to me (17.1%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (32.0%)
Long massage (15.8%)
Candlelit dinner at home (11.1%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (46.8%)
Cat (32.3%)
None - don't like animals (3.9%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.