Chicago Date Ideas from Chicago Singles
Post Date: Aug 24, 2011Walter from Chicago says: Chicago is full of romantic places and I love the city and the many locals including the lake front and the parks and a nice jazz club,I am not an out door person so I love my apartment and try to keep a noce atmosphere where I live.
Post Date: Aug 17, 2011Linda from Chicago says: The Marina in Riverdale Illinois
Post Date: Aug 16, 2011Kristen from Chicago says: Outdoor restaurants on a nice night or Ravinia.
Post Date: Aug 15, 2011Lara from Chicago says: Downtown Chicago
North side Chicago
Post Date: Aug 1, 2011Consuella from Chicago says: Millennium Park
Post Date: Jul 8, 2011Gina from Chicago says: I don't have an exact favorite date location. I do like to go bowling and miniature golfing. Strolling along the lakefront and through art fests are fun activities too. And any place that serves cupcakes can't be bad, right?
Post Date: Jun 26, 2011Nancy from Chicago says: The Adler Planetarium, where you can view the Chicago skyline at night time.
Post Date: Jun 5, 2011Bernie from Chicago says: any tapas restaurant; i could move to spain in pursuit of tapas!
any cramped, hidden treasure cafe and/or coffee shop.
lake shore path at dawn or midnight, not picky. :)
Post Date: May 20, 2011Kristin from Chicago says: A walk through Millennium Park. I love sitting on the benches and taking in the view.
Post Date: May 16, 2011Luis from Chicago says: If its a movie then I like taking my date to the River East 21 movie theater in downtown. I love that theater. It's epic
Post Date: May 6, 2011Colleen from Chicago says: Jeez!!! So many great date locations in Chicago. I love the city.
Post Date: Apr 19, 2011Klaudia from Chicago says: Downtown Chicago
Post Date: Apr 5, 2011Pam from Chicago says: Gilt Bar! I love the place.
Post Date: Mar 22, 2011Heather from Chicago says: There is a ton of things to do in Chicago. Obviously weather permitting. I love going to zoos, museums, restaurants, movies basically anything. The point is that no matter where you go, you want to make it a good time!
Post Date: Mar 19, 2011RENEE from Chicago says: Love to go downtown, walk around, maybe a cocktail or bite to eat.
Facts about Chicago Singles
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When asked about their Education, they answered
Bachelors degree (20.9%)
Some college (14.6%)
Graduate degree (14.5%)
When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (11.4%)
Medical/Health services (8.0%)
When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Physical comedy (5.5%)
When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (35.5%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (28.6%)
When asked if they Smoked, they answered
When asked about Drinking, they answered
Do not drink (13.6%)
When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (23.2%)
Attend religious services regularly (16.3%)
Religion is not important to me (15.6%)
When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Long massage (9.2%)
Candlelit dinner at home (8.8%)
When asked about their Pets, they answered
A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?
Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.
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Top 10 Dating Tips
1. Date Night Plan
Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.
2. Appropriateness Date Location
Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.
If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.
Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.
5. Listen to Your Date
Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.
6. Stay Light
Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.
Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.
As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.
Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.
10. Show Appreciation
Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.