About Fort Myers Singles

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 14.4% of Fort Myers Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 29.9% of Fort Myers Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Fort Myers Date Ideas from Fort Myers Singles

Post Date: Sep 4, 2011

Lisa from Fort Myers says: I restaurant that is quieter or Belltower Coffee shop..

Post Date: Aug 11, 2011

Bobby from Fort Myers says: Boston Red Soxs Baseball Game!

Post Date: Jun 5, 2011

David from Fort Myers says: Sanibel island .. is the cutest place in my Area...

Post Date: May 19, 2011

Jodi from Fort Myers says: On the water........

Post Date: Mar 20, 2011

Elaine from Fort Myers says: I love the Art and Music Walks downtown. So fun to look at everything, perfect people watching and then so many fun places to stop for a drink or a bite to eat. Now I just need somebody to hold my hand while we stroll...

Post Date: Sep 5, 2011

Lynda from Cape Coral says: Going to a dinner show (live play)

Post Date: Jul 9, 2011

Ivy from Estero says: Having dinner along the waterfront.

Post Date: Apr 4, 2011

Kelly from Lehigh Acres says: Walking on the beach or listening to live music someplace on the water.

Post Date: Mar 27, 2011

Kristina from Cape Coral says: The Joint at Cape Harbour for drinks and live music!

Post Date: Mar 24, 2011

Robin from Cape Coral says: Groove Street, or coffee shop.

Post Date: Mar 23, 2011

Lillian from Punta Gorda says: Just about any place on the water for a sunset dinner be it on a boat or on shore picnic dinner or sit down

Post Date: Feb 22, 2011

Rob from Naples says: Turtle Club on the beach.

Post Date: Feb 10, 2011

Dan from Cape Coral says: Veranda Restaurant

Post Date: Jan 29, 2011

Julie from Naples says: One of my favorite date locations is on or near the water. Whether it's a picnic on the beach, a sunset walk, or cruising on the water, there's just something about being together with the right person in such a peaceful, beautiful atmosphere.

Post Date: Jan 14, 2011

janet from Punta Gorda says: Favorite date location would probably be Fisherman's Village as I love the atmosphere found there.




Facts about Fort Myers Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (27.6%)
High school (19.7%)
Bachelors degree (18.5%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (10.3%)
Medical/Health services (9.8%)
Sales and marketing (7.1%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (14.4%)
Dry (10.1%)
Wisecrack (9.3%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (57.7%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (28.7%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (1.6%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (65.6%)
Socially (10.9%)
Moderately (9.2%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (62.7%)
Do not drink (15.5%)
Moderately (11.6%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (33.3%)
Worship in private (20.2%)
Religion is not important to me (19.9%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (29.9%)
Long massage (12.8%)
Candlelit dinner at home (12.6%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (41.4%)
Cat (33.2%)
Bird (5.1%)


A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.


The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.