About Westport Singles

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 18.6% of Westport Singles say their sense of humor is: Dry 
 24.3% of Westport Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Westport Date Ideas from Westport Singles

Post Date: Jul 9, 2011

BEVERLY from Stratford says: CASUAL LOCAL LOUNGE GOOD MUSIC GOOD FOOD GREAT SOCIAL PEOPLE

Post Date: May 13, 2011

Jill from Bethel says: The Italian restaurant La Zingara...excellent food and service.

Post Date: May 3, 2011

Sandra from New Haven says: More or less, I enjoy jazz cafes... and picnics :D let's hear from you soon! and until then I'll think of a fav date place in town :)

Post Date: Apr 9, 2011

Joan from Huntington says: either the movies or a nice closeby restaurant like Ruby Tuesday or Out Back......

Post Date: Mar 27, 2011

Linda from West Haven says: Dinner at any one of the many great resturants in town and then a walk on the boardwalk. Weather permitting.

Post Date: Mar 20, 2011

Frankie from Hamden says: The park.

Post Date: Mar 19, 2011

KEVIN from Stamford says: I like the outdoors I enjoy spending time at a local park or going for a ride out to the country side

Post Date: Mar 15, 2011

barbara234 from New Haven says: THE BEST PLACES TO GO IN MY CITY IS THE THEATERS,THE ART MUSUEMS, THE RESTUARENT WITH A ROMANTIC SETTINGS CANDLE LITE DINNER, AND AT THE SAME TIME GETTING TO KNOW EACH OTHER, OUR LIKES, AND DISLIKES.

Post Date: Mar 13, 2011

Mia from Stamford says: Any romantic restaurant, golf course, tennis court, hiking trail, sailboat, kayak or place overlooking the water.

Post Date: Mar 11, 2011

Maria from Milford says: The Beach

Post Date: Mar 5, 2011

Patricia from Orange says: New Haven is actually my favorite location...just a few towns over. There are so many great restaurants and pubs and other places to have a great day or night out!!!!

Post Date: Feb 12, 2011

Lena from Norwalk says: Tuscan Oven Restaurant, food and atmosphere.

Post Date: Feb 9, 2011

Earth from Easton says: Live music, walks near by city like New Haven.

Post Date: Feb 9, 2011

Karen from Danbury says: Any comfortable and clean restaurant with good food and wine

Post Date: Feb 8, 2011

LibraG from Fairfield says: Walk by the sea!




Facts about Westport Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Bachelors degree (31.8%)
Graduate degree (27.8%)
Some college (16.2%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (13.5%)
Executive/Managment (10.8%)
Sales and marketing (9.4%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Dry (18.6%)
Sarcasm (14.6%)
Wisecrack (7.8%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (46.9%)
Varies (Depends on my mood) (42.3%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (1.3%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (82.7%)
Socially (7.3%)
Moderately (1.9%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (67.7%)
Do not drink (12.9%)
Moderately (11.6%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (38.3%)
Religion is not important to me (25.9%)
Worship in private (18.3%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (24.3%)
Long massage (16.2%)
Candlelit dinner at home (15.9%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (48.0%)
Cat (31.3%)
Bird (4.0%)


A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.


The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.