About Connecticut Singles

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 13.7% of Connecticut Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 23.0% of Connecticut Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Connecticut Date Ideas from Connecticut Singles

Post Date: Sep 5, 2011

Annie from Granby says: In my area- Northampton, without a doubt- best restaurants, shopping, people-watching!

Post Date: Sep 5, 2011

Joseph from Plainville says: In my city? J. Timothy's, no question. CT? Morton's Anywhere? Several places, but they all have a few things in common - you can hear the waves and the seagulls outside, and they have raw shellfish on the menu.

Post Date: Aug 4, 2011

Rich from Cheshire says: Boston Common or Top of the Hub in Boston

Post Date: Jul 12, 2011

Lucianne from Kensington says: That is easy - Tisanes or The Pond House. After dinner a nice walk in Elizabeth Park admiring all the flowers.

Post Date: Jul 10, 2011

Yoshio from Canton says: Feng Asian Bistro

Post Date: Jul 9, 2011


Post Date: Jul 5, 2011

Rich from Branford says: I love Italian food and there is a great Italian restaurant in Boynton that is a perfect date location. After dinner I enjoy going down to the water and sitting on the dock.

Post Date: Jul 5, 2011

JoAnn from Madison says: fINE DINING

Post Date: Jun 22, 2011

Gregory from Kent says: Macedonia Mountain (My Private 22 Acre Luxury Resort...)

Post Date: Jun 15, 2011

peggy from Groton says: Noah's restaurant

Post Date: Jun 14, 2011

Kelly from North Haven says: I love to go to West Haven to walk the piers in the summer.

Post Date: May 25, 2011

jason from Norwich says: hiking mount misery

Post Date: May 25, 2011

Jim from Groton says: For me it could be any place that I would be with that special someone. I am drawn to the ocean and beaches. One of my favorite spots is the ocean with a setting sun, a nice cool breeze and the boats going by... Is there any takers

Post Date: May 15, 2011

Frank from Wethersfield says: Red Lobster

Post Date: May 13, 2011

Jill from Bethel says: The Italian restaurant La Zingara...excellent food and service.

Facts about Connecticut Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Bachelors degree (16.1%)
Some college (15.5%)
Graduate degree (10.7%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (10.9%)
Medical/Health services (10.3%)
Student (8.5%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (13.7%)
Dry (6.7%)
Wisecrack (5.9%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (36.4%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (25.3%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (1.8%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (51.1%)
Socially (6.5%)
Moderately (3.7%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (45.1%)
Do not drink (12.2%)
Moderately (5.3%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (21.2%)
Religion is not important to me (17.7%)
Worship in private (12.8%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (23.0%)
Long massage (9.2%)
Candlelit dinner at home (9.1%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (27.4%)
Cat (25.0%)
Bird (3.8%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.