About Ventura Singles

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 13.4% of Ventura Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 24.7% of Ventura Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Ventura Date Ideas from Ventura Singles

Post Date: Feb 11, 2011

tiffany from Ventura says: We have this restaurant on the pier where you can watch the surfers and the sunset.

Post Date: Jan 7, 2011

Donna from Ventura says: The beach

Post Date: Aug 7, 2011

Monica from Westlake Village says: Mediterraneo Cafe, Bocaccio's (lakeside)

Post Date: Jul 9, 2011

Jason from Oxnard says: The beach or harbor.

Post Date: Jun 26, 2011

mark from Santa Barbara says: The harbor

Post Date: Jun 25, 2011

Lynlee from Simi Valley says: Elephant Bar or Sutter's Mill

Post Date: Jun 15, 2011

Karen from Santa Paula says: The Beach, its so easy to get to know each other there. Its relaxing, quiet.

Post Date: Jun 9, 2011

Carol from Newbury Park says: My city is a subset of the larger Thousand Oaks, which is adjacent to another community (Westlake Village) that's similar in size to Newbury Park. But Westlake Village has a lot more going for it, especially the lakes and my favorite site is the lake at the end of Lindero Canyon Road, where a very nice restaurant (Boccaccio's) boasts a splendid view of the lake and, surprisingly for place with a view, great food for a relaxing Sunday brunch or a romantic dinner.

Post Date: Apr 23, 2011

Marie from Santa Barbara says: Spice Avenue, the best Indian food restaurant downtown Santa Barbara, on State Street, or Saigon, best Vietnamese food in Santa Barbara (there are 3 locations, same owners).

Post Date: Apr 9, 2011

Fran from Santa Barbara says: Why, the Harbor, of course.Can always find a wonderful meal, to say nothing of the view overlooking an array of boats of all types.

Post Date: Apr 6, 2011

Judy from Oxnard says: One of the great resturants at Channel Island Harbor.

Post Date: Mar 15, 2011

Rose from Newbury Park says: The Secret Garden in Moorpark.

Post Date: Feb 27, 2011

Stephanie from Moorpark says: Cafe Firenze, Moorpark, CA

Post Date: Jan 24, 2011

morris from Santa Barbara says: Super Rica

Post Date: Jan 9, 2011

Howard from Thousand Oaks says: Gardens of the World is a nice place, especially during the summer Jazz series. But honestly the location doesn't matter--it's the person you're with that matters most.




Facts about Ventura Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (32.6%)
Bachelors degree (20.0%)
High school (12.8%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (10.7%)
Medical/Health services (10.5%)
Student (7.4%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (13.4%)
Dry (11.6%)
Wisecrack (10.4%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (54.0%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (29.5%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (2.9%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (70.5%)
Socially (10.8%)
Moderately (6.0%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (62.0%)
Do not drink (17.4%)
Moderately (10.3%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (27.0%)
Religion is not important to me (25.3%)
Worship in private (20.9%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (24.7%)
Long massage (15.4%)
Candlelit dinner at home (12.4%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Cat (38.5%)
Dog (36.6%)
Bird (3.5%)


A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.


The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.