About San Diego Singles

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 16.1% of San Diego Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 29.2% of San Diego Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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San Diego Date Ideas from San Diego Singles

Post Date: Aug 15, 2011

Nolan from San Diego says: Harbor House Restaurant

Post Date: Aug 13, 2011

Laura from San Diego says: San Diego, CA is very Beautiful, so a couple of places off the top of my head would be Coronado Island or Balboa Park, absolutely beautiful.....

Post Date: Jul 1, 2011

Jeanne from San Diego says: Wine Steals in Cardiff or Pt. Loma. The beach in Del Mar...anywhere quiet where we can talk and get to know each other. After that? There are too many cool places in San Diego.

Post Date: May 31, 2011

Pat from San Diego says: The Comedy Club downtown San Diego, if it's still there. It's been so long since I was there. Really want 2 go again.

Post Date: May 29, 2011

Desiree from San Diego says: I don't have one. There are lots of nice places in San Diego County. I prefer the beach areas and I like Balboa Park too.

Post Date: May 28, 2011

Karlos from San Diego says: One of my favorite spots is the Coronado pier overlooking the bay. You get to see the beautiful downtown skyline on the convention center side. Very relaxing and romantic.

Post Date: May 23, 2011

Daniel from San Diego says: Italian restaurant will always do

Post Date: May 11, 2011

Jacob from San Diego says: La Jolla or Coronado: Walking along The Shores or the Silver Strand together, after enjoying some of the better dining in San Diego.

Post Date: Apr 17, 2011

Cassie from San Diego says: I love Little Italy, Harbor Island and La Jolla Shores.

Post Date: Apr 7, 2011

Michele from San Diego says: I like being near the water. I like Gaslamp, but don't go down there much. Also like Carlsbad Village.

Post Date: Mar 27, 2011

robert from San Diego says: waterfront dining and music gigs

Post Date: Mar 21, 2011

Mark from San Diego says: Beach side

Post Date: Mar 16, 2011

rlyn from San Diego says: balboa park

Post Date: Mar 15, 2011

George from San Diego says: Suisun City

Post Date: Mar 13, 2011

Philippe from San Diego says: From Mister's A to Nunu's.




Facts about San Diego Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Bachelors degree (24.2%)
Some college (23.4%)
Graduate degree (14.4%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (10.3%)
Student (9.7%)
Technical/Science/Engineering (8.9%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (16.1%)
Dry (8.7%)
Wisecrack (7.5%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (46.2%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (35.3%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (2.7%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (69.2%)
Socially (9.3%)
Moderately (4.0%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (59.0%)
Do not drink (14.4%)
Moderately (9.6%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (29.0%)
Religion is not important to me (22.5%)
Worship in private (17.2%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (29.2%)
Long massage (12.6%)
Candlelit dinner at home (12.4%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (38.4%)
Cat (28.5%)
Bird (6.6%)


A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.


The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.