Redlands Date Ideas from Redlands Singles
Post Date: Apr 9, 2011Larissa from Redlands says: It's not in my city but it's very close, Candelas restaurant in Victoria Gardens. Great atmosphere, amazing food, and very tasty Horchata martinis.
Post Date: Mar 3, 2011Denise from Redlands says: Wherever there is a rock concert!
Post Date: Jan 17, 2011Udo from Redlands says: Star Buck's on Orange Street in Redlands
Post Date: Aug 9, 2011William from Riverside says: Los Angeles
Post Date: Aug 7, 2011Lisa from Ontario says: Probably a live music or sports event at the Citizen's Bank Arena or a comedy show at the Improv.
Post Date: Aug 7, 2011alicia from Ontario says: Victoria Gardens
Post Date: Jul 28, 2011stanlet from San Bernardino says: Amada Thai restuarant located on University Blvd in
Post Date: Jul 27, 2011Caryn from Upland says: For a casual date Pizza & Such in Claremont. For a dress-up special date, Christophe's in Upland. For a coffee date, The Klatch in Rancho on Carnelian and Foothill.
Post Date: Jun 5, 2011Polina from Lake Arrowhead says: There's a fire look out tower called Strawberry Peak. On a clear day you can see straight to the ocean and at night all the city lights are twinkling. It's a beautiful place to be :)
Post Date: May 25, 2011YLonn from Hemet says: There is not much to do in my city but there are plenty of things to do in the surrounding areas. I love Palm Springs and sight seeing for a change of scenery.
Post Date: May 16, 2011DawnMarie from Riverside says: Bowling! Because u get to laugh, talk n do silly things that makes you open up more.
Post Date: May 10, 2011Kristhian from Loma Linda says: Santa Monica Beach
Post Date: Apr 16, 2011mark from Grand Terrace says: Disneyland, where you can be a kid again.
Post Date: Apr 9, 2011Maureen from Ontario says: Mission Inn. or Harry's Bar
Post Date: Mar 30, 2011Joseph from Rialto says: I've lived in Rialto for three weeks! I've only been to Home Depot, Del Taco, and the Bowling Alley! sooooo, yeah...one of those three. Who says a night at Home Depot cant be romantic??
Facts about Redlands Singles
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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (28.8%)
Bachelors degree (19.2%)
Graduate degree (13.0%)
When asked about their Profession, they answered
Medical/Health services (14.4%)
When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (58.2%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (27.7%)
When asked if they Smoked, they answered
When asked about Drinking, they answered
Do not drink (18.7%)
When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (32.0%)
Religion is not important to me (19.2%)
Attend religious services regularly (18.9%)
When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Long massage (13.0%)
Candlelit dinner at home (10.4%)
When asked about their Pets, they answered
A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?
Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.
The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:
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Top 10 Dating Tips
1. Date Night Plan
Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.
2. Appropriateness Date Location
Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.
If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.
Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.
5. Listen to Your Date
Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.
6. Stay Light
Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.
Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.
As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.
Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.
10. Show Appreciation
Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.