About Lancaster Singles

* Source - PerfectMatch Members
 13.8% of Lancaster Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 29.3% of Lancaster Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Lancaster Date Ideas from Lancaster Singles

Post Date: Jun 8, 2011

kelly from Lancaster says: Big Tuna

Post Date: Jan 26, 2011

Monica from Lancaster says: Probably one of the restaurants we have in Lancaster, CA. It provides the opportunity for a good meal and long conversation.

Post Date: Aug 16, 2011

Dorthe from Santa Clarita says: I will have to answer pretending to be in LA - Starbucks! and simply because there is no Starbucks where I live now:-) It is actually possible to miss it, trust me:-)

Post Date: Aug 13, 2011

Roberta from San Fernando says: Hollywood Bowl Leo Carillo, watching Kite Surfers.

Post Date: Jun 20, 2011

mark from Castaic says: the lake

Post Date: Jun 15, 2011

Alecia from Santa Clarita says: The sushi bar around the corner! mmm mmm good

Post Date: May 20, 2011

sheena from Stevenson Ranch says: Disnyland, Pretty much anywhere we go .... is nice with the person i am with.

Post Date: May 9, 2011

Lori from Glendale says: Anywhere by the beach!! Or that has a view...

Post Date: Apr 24, 2011

constatino from San Fernando says: well i live in the san fernando. and it's a sleepy night town, so i go out of my city. but i like an italian returant in hollywood, it has one of the best salmon dishes served

Post Date: Mar 21, 2011

Roger from Palmdale says: I spent 25+ years in L.A (from a Downtown Loft to Hollywood Hills to Westwood-Santa Monica-Venice areas where the selections for a "great-date" were almost unlimited. Sadly, Palmdale's not so cosmopolitan. However,there's a area near me I'd take you to on a casual date w/ lots of eateries,etc."Panera", Pizza, Sushi, Barnes/Noble & Trader Joe's (if we wanted to pack a picnic for some nice City Parks and well-traveled scenic hiking trails). It might B More Fun 2 meet at YOUR FAVORITE SPOTS..

Post Date: Feb 26, 2011

Debora from Quartz Hill says: BJs, Olive Garden and Bexs.

Post Date: Jan 31, 2011

Ana from Canyon Country says: Route 66 Classic Grill.

Post Date: Jan 5, 2011

Gary from Palmdale says: Butler's Gourmet Coffee shop

Post Date: May 8, 2011

sunnydays77 from Chatsworth says: A coffee shop.

Post Date: May 4, 2011

Stephen from Northridge says: Relaxing at a wine bar with a plate of cheese and discussing life.




Facts about Lancaster Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (35.1%)
High school (23.1%)
Bachelors degree (11.6%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Student (8.4%)
Medical/Health services (8.1%)
Self employed (7.1%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (13.8%)
Wisecrack (10.5%)
Dry (7.1%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (65.8%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (20.2%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (1.4%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (64.3%)
Socially (12.1%)
Moderately (9.3%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (62.2%)
Do not drink (20.2%)
Moderately (9.1%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (30.4%)
Worship in private (21.0%)
Religion is not important to me (19.5%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (29.3%)
Long massage (13.0%)
Candlelit dinner at home (11.0%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (42.3%)
Cat (28.7%)
Bird (6.7%)


A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.


The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.