About Hesperia Singles

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 12.6% of Hesperia Singles say their sense of humor is: Sarcasm 
 30.8% of Hesperia Singles say their favorite romantic gesture is: Flowers 

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Hesperia Date Ideas from Hesperia Singles

Post Date: Jul 28, 2011

stanlet from San Bernardino says: Amada Thai restuarant located on University Blvd in San Bernardino.

Post Date: Jul 27, 2011

Caryn from Upland says: For a casual date Pizza & Such in Claremont. For a dress-up special date, Christophe's in Upland. For a coffee date, The Klatch in Rancho on Carnelian and Foothill.

Post Date: Jun 5, 2011

Polina from Lake Arrowhead says: There's a fire look out tower called Strawberry Peak. On a clear day you can see straight to the ocean and at night all the city lights are twinkling. It's a beautiful place to be :)

Post Date: May 10, 2011

Kristhian from Loma Linda says: Santa Monica Beach

Post Date: Apr 16, 2011

mark from Grand Terrace says: Disneyland, where you can be a kid again.

Post Date: Apr 9, 2011

Larissa from Redlands says: It's not in my city but it's very close, Candelas restaurant in Victoria Gardens. Great atmosphere, amazing food, and very tasty Horchata martinis.

Post Date: Apr 9, 2011

Maureen from Ontario says: Mission Inn. or Harry's Bar

Post Date: Mar 30, 2011

Joseph from Rialto says: I've lived in Rialto for three weeks! I've only been to Home Depot, Del Taco, and the Bowling Alley! sooooo, yeah...one of those three. Who says a night at Home Depot cant be romantic??

Post Date: Mar 3, 2011

Denise from Redlands says: Wherever there is a rock concert!

Post Date: Feb 25, 2011

art from Upland says: McCormicks at downtown la

Post Date: Feb 11, 2011

Glynis from San Bernardino says: There is a place in Seal Beach and they have a jazz band in the evenings. I would have to say a nice restaurant that plays jazz and has good food. We have a soul food place, a Mexican restaurant or just some where with a jazz style feel.

Post Date: Feb 7, 2011

bianca from Upland says: victoria gardens

Post Date: Jan 20, 2011

Jesse from Fontana says: I don't really have one but I guess Victoria Gardens or a view of the city from the high mountain side would be very nice of course once we feel comfortable enough to sit, enjoy each other's company to talk and bond from the heart.

Post Date: Jan 17, 2011

Udo from Redlands says: Star Buck's on Orange Street in Redlands

Post Date: Jan 15, 2011

luvtkinkadert from Upland says: Walking along a beautiful tree-lined street, hand in hand.

Facts about Hesperia Singles

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When asked about their Education, they answered
Some college (34.7%)
High school (28.4%)
Associates degree (8.5%)

When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (8.6%)
Medical/Health services (7.9%)
Student (7.8%)

When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
Sarcasm (12.6%)
Wisecrack (10.2%)
Physical comedy (6.0%)

When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (65.2%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (18.2%)
Vegetarian/Vegan (1.9%)

When asked if they Smoked, they answered
Nonsmoker (60.7%)
Socially (11.4%)
Moderately (10.4%)

When asked about Drinking, they answered
Socially (60.5%)
Do not drink (16.9%)
Moderately (10.4%)

When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (27.5%)
Worship in private (22.4%)
Religion is not important to me (20.8%)

When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Flowers (30.8%)
Long massage (13.8%)
Weekend getaway (8.5%)

When asked about their Pets, they answered
Dog (41.7%)
Cat (28.7%)
Bird (6.3%)

A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?

Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.

The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:

  • You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners.  Read More

Dr. Pepper Schwartz - Dating & Relationship Expert

Top 10 Dating Tips

1. Date Night Plan

Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.

2. Appropriateness Date Location

Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.

3. Sensitivity

If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.

4. Respect

Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.

5. Listen to Your Date

Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.

6. Stay Light

Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.

7. Connect

Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.

8. Anticipate

As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.

9. Laugh

Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.

10. Show Appreciation

Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.