Birch Hill Date Ideas from Birch Hill Singles
Post Date: Aug 21, 2011nancy from Murrieta says: Downtown Temecula
Post Date: Jul 30, 2011glenn from Temecula says: Great oak steak house at pachanga.
Post Date: Jun 22, 2011Gayle from Temecula says: The wineries close by. The Temecula Valley has over 35 of them now. Great place to get acquainted, chill, watch the sunset & do some tasting while admiring the beautiful mt.views that surround us. Salud. : )
Post Date: May 31, 2011Geno from Murrieta says: Wine country
Post Date: Apr 21, 2011Jennifer from Murrieta says: I have no idea...dont get out much, allthough the patio at the Yard House is very pleasent and PF Changs
Post Date: Apr 10, 2011S_D_Fan from San Marcos says: PetCo Park then the Gaslamp!
Post Date: Mar 29, 2011Gloria from Murrieta says: Tour of the Wine Country.
Post Date: Mar 20, 2011Angel from Murrieta Hot Springs says: The wineries
Post Date: Mar 15, 2011Rhonda from Escondido says: My favorite date is not for a first date. I would love to pack a cooler, chairs, ipod and firewood for a campfire and drive out to the desert for the night. I love the stillness and the stars around midnight are amazing!
Post Date: Mar 11, 2011Jen from Escondido says: Haven't been on many dates but I like meeting at the Wild Animal Park or Zoo that way we can talk and watch animals at the same time! And if they haven't been there or haven't been there in a long time, I can show them around! :)
Post Date: Feb 21, 2011Gloria from Vista says: The pier.
Post Date: Feb 20, 2011Holly from Poway says: Almost anywhere on the coast or in a coastal community...followed closely by North or South Park. San Diego is a great place to live...and there are an infinite number of places to hike or walk.
Post Date: Feb 13, 2011Patricia from San Marcos says: The Beach House--Cardiff by the Sea
Post Date: Feb 11, 2011margie from Oceanside says: Oceanside harbor.
Post Date: Feb 11, 2011emichele from Vista says: Anywhere outdoors, open mics, I'm pretty much open to everything except the "dinner/movie/coffee/sushi" thing.
A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?
Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.
The very talented and extremely funny comedian, Jeff Foxworthy, used to say, "You know you're a redneck if…". Well, you know you're ready for a serious relationship if:
You start to be bored when going out with others who are not contenders for a long-lasting future, even if they are handsome or beautiful, smart, entertaining and/or recent lottery winners. Read More
Top 10 Dating Tips
1. Date Night Plan
Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.
2. Appropriateness Date Location
Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.
If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.
Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.
5. Listen to Your Date
Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.
6. Stay Light
Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.
Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.
As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.
Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.
10. Show Appreciation
Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.