Bessemer Date Ideas from Bessemer Singles
Post Date: Aug 18, 2011Jimie from Irondale says: Birmingham has many great restaurants.
Post Date: Jul 19, 2011susan from Alabaster says: a club house named 411
Post Date: Jul 16, 2011PAMELA from Birmingham says: Outback would come the closest to favorite. But I am easy to please and content in jeans ot black attire.
Post Date: Jul 1, 2011Kathy from Hoover says: Costa's Restaurant
Post Date: Jun 28, 2011Lillie from Birmingham says: Highland's Bar and Grill
Post Date: May 14, 2011Virginia from McCalla says: I love to eat at Stix. Hoover, Alabama.
Post Date: Apr 21, 2011Dorothy from Birmingham says: Theater/Arts Center
Post Date: Mar 16, 2011carol from Leeds says: kobe
Post Date: Mar 13, 2011JoAnn from Helena says: The Botanical Gardens, Zoo and lots of great restaurants
Post Date: Jan 6, 2011Elisa from Helena says: I love to meet at Firebird's in Hoover after work to have some appetizers and a drink. We sit outside and enjoy the beautiful weather.
Post Date: Jun 25, 2011Whitley from Tuscaloosa says: I love going to the brickhouse.
Facts about Bessemer Singles
* Source - PerfectMatch Members
When asked about their Education, they answered
High school (27.2%)
Some college (26.1%)
Bachelors degree (10.1%)
When asked about their Profession, they answered
Self employed (8.5%)
Medical/Health services (6.9%)
When asked about their Sense of Humor, they answered
When asked about their Food Habits, they answered
Varies (Depends on my mood) (60.8%)
Health Conscious (I watch what I eat) (20.0%)
When asked if they Smoked, they answered
When asked about Drinking, they answered
Do not drink (22.7%)
When asked about thier Religious Habits, they answered
Attend religious services occasionally (33.6%)
Attend religious services regularly (24.5%)
Worship in private (13.3%)
When asked about what Romantic Gesture they preferred, they answered
Candlelit dinner at home (12.0%)
Intimate gift (10.1%)
When asked about their Pets, they answered
A Serious Relationship…Are You Ready?
Unfortunately, knowing for certain when you are ready for a serious relationship, isn't one of the simpler things in life. There'll come a time when we "think" we're ready. But then, after we've leaped in, we feel like we're drowning, and we start struggling and kicking to get out of the water. This causes sadness, and often anger, to the person we are with. It's usually not something we're proud of doing to another person, or ourselves. So, here're a few dating and relationship tips to consider before you jump off the cliff…and then realize you have no idea how deep the water is.
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Top 10 Dating Tips
1. Date Night Plan
Waiting until the last minute may make things spontaneous - or disastrous. Plan your date in advance, set expectations and ensure your date is in agreement. Know how to get there, where to park, when things are open, etc. Look like you know how to make things happen seamlessly.
2. Appropriateness Date Location
Make sure what you've picked out and/or suggested has some relevance to what this person might actually enjoy. Doing something you both enjoy will go a long way towards relationship building.
If your date happens on a weeknight, don't select a movie ending at 11.00 p.m. The more solutions you've prepared for in advance, the less anxious your date will be. This clearly shows your thoughtfulness.
Sure, she or he really looks great and you're more impressed as the evening goes along. However, don't push physical attraction too soon. You could be making a serious mistake if you attempt to manhandle her or him.
5. Listen to Your Date
Listening is very important at any stage of dating or a relationship. Show her or him you know them better at the end of the date, than you did at the beginning.
6. Stay Light
Do something positive you both can share in, without it being embarrassing. Select something appealing to your date; i.e., go to a water park if she or he likes water, or an outdoor rock concert if they like the performers. Perhaps, see a romantic comedy or take a hike. Whatever you're doing, don't sit and talk about your exes, troubled kids, etc. These are conversation topics which will come later if the relationship progresses.
Make a real effort to find commonalities. Listen and learn a little about each other's childhood and past. See if your values and life's outlook are similar. This is an excellent exploration period.
As always, you should look your best. A light kiss at the end of the night that promises more…someday...is sexier than a lip scrunching passionate kiss that surprises your date and possibly puts him or her off.
Laughter is bonding, infectious and attractive. If you're going to the movies, ensure the film's funny; if going to a comedy club, know the comedians are funny; or go roller skating and laugh at yourselves. Laughter is a great release for any nervousness.
10. Show Appreciation
Acknowledge someone's kindness, thoughtfulness or generosity. Don't assume anything and don't come off as being spoiled. Verbally let them know their hard work, planning or good humor didn't go unnoticed. And, make yourself an irresistible choice for future dates.